Choose the people you surround yourself with carefully.
My friend, Peg, called me the other day to ask my opinion about a situation. She was feeling hurt over someone crossing her boundaries and in seeing the truth of them: that what she thought them to be wasn’t really who they were. She asked me how to get past that emotion of feeling hurt and betrayed.
I thought about it for a moment and came up with this analogy, one which I hope helps everyone.
Picture your life as a bubble and you’re in the center. Let’s say you’re only allowed 10 people in there with you. If you have 6 positive people and 4 negative in there then it’s full…there are no seats left for any other positive people to get in. Your bubble is full to capacity.
I can’t tell anyone enough that it is your decision of who you allow in your bubble, and you…
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