“Why Do We Stop Dreaming Just Because We Grow Up?”

Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, many of us quietly pack away our dreams.

As children, we imagined without limits. We wanted to write books, travel the world, open bakeries, become artists, own little cottages by the sea, or simply live a life that felt meaningful and full. We believed anything was possible because no one had yet convinced us otherwise.

Then life happened.

Responsibilities arrived. Bills needed to be paid. Children needed to be raised. Careers demanded our attention. We learned to be practical, realistic, and responsible. Little by little, many of our dreams were placed on a shelf labeled “someday.”

But here’s what I’ve come to believe:

The dream never really dies.

It waits.

It waits through the busy years, the difficult years, the years when everyone else seems to need a piece of you. It waits patiently until one day you wake up and realize there is finally room in your life for you too.

Maybe your dream is to write a book or travel the world. Maybe it’s to learn to paint, start a business, take a dance class, or simply rediscover who you are when you’re not taking care of everyone else.

Whatever it is, age is not the reason to stop dreaming.

In many ways, growing older gives us something we didn’t have when we were young: wisdom. We know what matters and how quickly time passes. We understand that regret is often heavier than fear.

So if there’s still a dream tucked away in your heart, perhaps it’s there for a reason.

Maybe it isn’t too late.

Maybe this is the exact moment your dream has been waiting for.

After all, why should growing up mean giving up?

The child inside you is still there.

And they still believe.

Wishing you love and light,

~Anne Dennish~

“Dreams, Magic and Adulting”

“Magic.” I love that word. 

“Dream.” I love this word, too.

“Adult.” I’m starting to believe that this is the word that makes us forget that the above two words are still possible.

I love being called a “dreamer” even though some of the people that call me that don’t necessarily mean it as a compliment, but more as someone with no grasp on reality. That’s so not true. It means that I still believe that all things are possible.

And “magic?” I believe in it. I have seen it on the faces of two people in love, and heard it in the laughter of a child. I have tasted food that reminds me of my childhood and  smelled the familiar scent of a loved one that’s passed on. Those things are magical!

And” adult?” This is a term used to depict our age but I believe that we’re as young as we feel. All too often the labels we’re given dictate who we are, what we do or even what we believe in. 

I believe that growing old is a gift and believing in dreams and magic is a blessing. 

I am a person who is grateful to be growing older as a dreamer who still believes in magic. 

Do you?

Wishing you love and light,

~Anne Dennish~