Years ago whenever my grandmother saw a two seater car she’d say: “That’s a selfish car. There’s only enough room for two people.” It was a funny thing to hear her say, yet as I’ve grown older I understand even more of what she was saying.
I’m that way with chairs.
My front porch has a table and two chairs on one side of the door and on the other side is two chairs with a table between them. I’m usually in one of those chairs and look forward to the people I love sitting with me in the other chair.
There’s not always someone sitting with me but there’s an empty chair just always waiting for someone who needs to use it.
When I see someone put only one chair out for themselves it tells me a couple of things. It tells me that they want to be alone, it tells me that they don’t want me sitting with them, it tells me that they never had a thought to how I was feeling and that I may need someone to give me a chair.
Sometimes we all need a chair. We need that second chair to know we’re not alone. We need that second chair so that we don’t feel lonely. We need that second chair to let us know that someone is just waiting for us to sit in it.
The second chair means that someone wants us.
The second chair means that someone loves us.
The second chair means that we matter.
And to me, when I see only one chair I see a person who is selfish, who doesn’t care about anyone other than themselves and a person who takes the people in his life for granted.
You can spend your life with only one chair.
But remember what that chair represents to those that love you.
And be mindful and aware that a day may come in which there won’t be that person to fill a second chair; you will be there alone with one chair.
I love having two chairs on my front porch.
It’s my small way of letting the people I love know that they’re always welcome to be with me, that I love them, and that I want to spend time with them.
How many do you have?
I hope you have more than one.
It’s a good thing.
Wishing you love and light,